It used to be that whenever we went hiking as a family, we were all "Go Go Go". Did having a kid stop us? No way! We'd strap him into a backpack carrier and head on our way no matter how long the trail. We were those people who'd brag about how far our kid hiked with us. Four miles, six miles… "oh, he’s good," we’d say!
Then...well, then he grew too big for us to carry him.
There was whining. There were fits. Sometimes he’d seem tired one moment and be running the next. Or he would do something that seemed designed to unnerve us. One time, he just took off running in the direction of the trailhead as fast as he could. Another time he sat down on the trail and wouldn’t budge.
A while back, we sent out a survey to families about hiking that revealed that the kinds of challenges we were having are pretty much the norm. Lots of you shared stories about your kid rebelling while on the trail. As many of you noted, even if you are committed to getting outdoors, when kids revolt, going hiking with them can feel like a really big slog.
So...What to do about it?
One resource that has helped us is Rachel Carson’s book, The Sense of Wonder. Carson is someone who is known as one of the founders of the modern environmentalist movement. As such, she has spent much of her career devoted to forging closer connections between people and the outdoors. The Sense of Wonder is great because in that book she focuses on the importance of nature for kids.
Here are a few of our favorite tips from The Sense of Wonder:
Carson's advice has helped us to think about hiking from the kids's perspective. We've put a lot of these ideas to work as we've been creating our monthly trail packets for Super Nature Adventures. But you don't have to only apply this advice to trails. Whether you are hiking with your child to a waterfall, or walking with them to the store, supporting a sense of wonder can help to deepen their connection to the outdoors.
Bryna R. Campbell